More About a Living Celebration

A Living Celebration is intended to celebrate the life of a loved one before they die.

Celebrating the Life of a Loved One - Before Death

Life celebrations fulfill an important need in contemporary society to say a meaningful goodbye to a loved one who knows that their life is drawing to a close.

Often initiated by individuals who have been diagnosed with a terminal illness and may be in rapid decline, a Living Celebration presents the perfect opportunity to share positive and meaningful moments with their loved ones – entirely on their own terms.

I've often had customers ask me about “living funerals” or "coming home parties".  This is an event where a person (usually terminally ill), attends a service which celebrates his or her life, and allows them to socialize with their loved ones while they are still living.  The event is sometimes called a “life celebration” or a “living funeral or memorial”. It focuses on honoring the person’s life, and not focusing on death. Family and friends gather and usually there is a “ceremony” that honors the person's life and achievements.  Many friends and family members speak, and tell stories of the memories of that person.  It is a beautiful event when done properly.

There really aren’t any clear cut rules for planning living funerals or memorials.  If you are considering having a service of this type,  a Life Celebration Consultant will help you with the planning process.

If you have a loved one who is terminally ill in your family, consider planning an event where that person can see all of his friends and family.  If you are uncomfortable with the term “living celebration, living funeral, or memorial”, then call the service by another name.  If there is an upcoming birthday,  anniversary or any other event where friends and family can attend, then plan a “living memorial” during that celebration.

 


 

Past Living Celebrations

Below is a notable example of a Living Funeral in the UK

A Gentleman's last goodbye

A gentleman with terminal cancer held a living funeral two weeks before he died.  Everyone he had invited came and more besides. He had a guest book that all signed and he invited them to note any thoughts they had during the evening in it.

This he read and re-read for a week afterwards, it then passed to his family who copied it and put the original in his coffin. He had throat cancer and couldn't speak so he had a note pad on which he corresponded and the strange thing was that people were writing back their replies to him even though there was nothing wrong with his hearing.  The family have treasured this. He also wrote a message to each of them in his guest book and these were read out at the funeral.

It was a wonderful end for a lovely man. Anyone who wants friends and family to know how they feel should do the same.  Everyone remembered him smiling and laughing and not how he was at the last.
 
The most well known Life Celebration Example in the USA
 
The world-wide best-seller 'Tuesdays with Morrie' tells the true story of Professor Morrie Schwartz (who is dying of Lou Gehrig's Disease), returns disappointed from a colleague's funeral at Brandeis University.
"What a waste," he said. "All those people saying all those wonderful things, and Irv never got to hear any of it." And so Morrie decided to set a date. On a cold dreary Sunday afternoon he and a small group of friends and family had a "living funeral" for him. As author Mitch Albom describes the event: "Each of them spoke and paid tribute to my old professor. Some cried. Some laughed. Morrie cried and laughed with them. And all the heartfelt things we never get to say to those we love, Morrie said that day. His 'living funeral' was a rousing success. "
 

 

Plan a Living Celebration Today

Your Life Celebration Consultant will offer a variety of packages to suit your budget and needs. We will tailor the perfect Living Celebration remembrance service for you.

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